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A Lao Tzu, and "as good as water"
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Mencius said: "recite poems, read the book, do not know the person may?" Before the talk about Lao Tzu's thought of "good Ruoshui" of Laozi's Mr. do an understanding in order to better understand the essence and connotation of "good Ruoshui" thought.
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Laozi, the late spring and Autumn period, dating back about 2500 years is our country renowned philosopher and thinker, Lao Tzu's life in feudal hegemony, incessant warfare environment. Record of the Lao Tzu's life and deeds of historical data is not exhaustive, Laozi's name and occupation of the "historical records" such records: "Tzu, Chu (China) Ku County, Li Xiang Qu Ren (now Henan Luyi) also, surnamed Lee, the name of ear, the word Danling, history of Zhou Shoucang room also." [1]
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Lao Tzu went ascetic life, worthy of the name. "Historical records" also contains: "Lao Tzu cultivate the learning from implicit to ring for service. In the week of the week, see week decline, but then go. Very close, he said: "Hi son will be hidden, strong for my book." The book is so Lao Tzu, said five thousand words and moral meaning, not knowing the end." [1]
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Is the core of the philosophy of Lao Tzu, Tao is the world everything generation based and religious raw, but misty abstruse difficult to grasp. Lao Zi said: "hybrid, congenital lives, Ji Liao Xi Xi, alone and does not change, weeks and not dangerous, can be the mother of the world, I do not know its name, the character is strong the." [2]
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It shows that the generation and existence of all things are the products of Tao operation. For the mystique of the Lao Tzu in "moral" in such a description: "the road to road, very road. Name can name, very name. Unknown, the beginning of heaven and earth; famous, the mother of all things. It is often no desire to watch his magic; often, to view the payment.
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The two, with a different name, with that of hyun. The gate of the mysterious mystery of mysteries." [2]
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"However, indistinct however indistinct", we cannot directly to perceive and grasp, but can through some specific things indirectly to understand. And water as a common thing is used by Lao Tzu as the metaphor of the Tao, in the Lao Tzu's "moral classics" in many times, I put forward the moral quality of the people should have the moral character. I put water as he describes the road and the ideal personality of the body, the abstract things in kind, help us to better get inspiration from.
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Two, Lao Tzu's ideal personality characteristics
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Water Youqian and Dade De. Water Youqian is our things and not fight, water is water for the nourishment of dade. Water washing dirty things is the shelter evil people and countenance evil practices under good morality. Although the water to soft and weak but strong, eventually to weak strong victory. These excellent quality of water is also the pursuit of the ideal personality.
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(a) the water is good and everything but does not dispute. "Water benefits all things without struggle" is that the water on all things, but never for their own interests and everything. Lao Tzu said the indisputable and is not complacent, lazy, negative as free but requires people to give up fame and dynastic struggle, do not fight the good fight. "The way of the day, don't dispute and win" [2], meaning but can win, this is the pursuit of the people in the world of the superior realm, with "no" strategy to achieve without the purpose. "As good as water, water benefits all things without struggle, all of the evil, so few in the road. In good, good heart deep, and good benevolence, worshippers and is of good governance, good governance, good time. Husband only does not dispute, therefore without you." [2]
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The highest virtue is like water, water benefits all things growth but not contend with all things. Water is located in the place that people don't like, so most close "Tao". People with good quality, like water that are willing to reconcile Belcher wet land; determined to deliberately, can like water as broad and profound; and friends live in, like water love dating; words and deeds, like water as honest and trustworthy; in governing the country, like water that organized; in dealing with things, like water omnipotent; in action, to seize the opportunity and conveniently. Laozi's yearning and pursuit of the ideal personality as water, willing to lower figure to disliked by others to, for others don't want to do.
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(two) weak and strong. The water is very soft, but strong. Soft water, need to be visible. Water invisible. The water in the river sea in the river torrents; or surging or gurgling, and inside the glass is shaped like a cup. Water on the flexibility, the Western Han Dynasty, Huainan Wang Liu made such a statement: "the world, Mo soft weak in water, and then not, unfathomable, repair to the infinite, much reduced in boundless." [3]
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This probably means that all the world there is no softer than water the, however water no marginal, far to the boundless; unfathomable; long without end. But it is precisely to the amorphous soft water can be invincible. Lao Tzu said: "the world is not weak in water, and the strong can overcome the strong, in order to ease the." [2]
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Is precisely this to soft amorphous water is invincible, "soft" is the characteristics of water, is the life of the individual characteristics, which is I pursuit of the ideal personality has character. Soft is the potential performance of life, strong is the potential performance of death, "weak" is the natural law of life. "The life of a man is weak, and his death is strong. Plants are also weak, the dead also withered. Therefore the strong man dies, the weak one is born. Is the soldiers out, wood. Strong place, weak place." [2]
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Laotse said that just came to the world of human body is soft; people died when the body is stiff, foliage plant early growth of vulnerability, withered vegetation is the decline when the foliage is withered the, so soft is the potential performance, strong is a potential sign of death.
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(three) the evil that is in the crowd. To wash the Belcher wet, all of these. To high water flows downwards, the total water in low-lying wet hated by common people place, despite its low status but this did not lessen water of all things is of vital importance. Water is in a low place but can wash the dust attached to all things. Lao Tzu said: "Jianghai reason for 100 valley of kings, with its good conditions, it can be the king of the valley." [2]
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Water has a modest inclusive quality, Jianghai can Nabaichuan because Jianghai in the lower reaches of the river, eventually many rivers are classified as the Jianghai, water tolerance of this quality is Laozi's ideal personality should have the quality, in life, we should also to a low profile people doing things, humbly asks.
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Three, personality accomplishment --- if water quality
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Five thousand years of Chinese culture, profound, long history. Loyalty, filial piety, honesty, faith, courtesy, righteousness, integrity, honesty and shame are our traditional virtues. Passage of time, the rapid development of society, the Chinese nation outstanding traditional virtue can inheritance and development. In the different stages of social development has been given new connotation and spirit of the culture, but as the development of China's market economy and the establishment as well as social transformation, in recent years appeared a series of moral turpitude. It is too quick in the pursuit of material wealth. At the same time, ignoring the construction of spiritual culture. The moral level of society as a whole depends on the moral level of every individual in society. Restore the classic, read the "moral" on the cultivation of personal accomplishment, is of great significance to improve the level of social morality.
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If the water character, need to enter the world attitude to work, the attitude of the person in the scene of an accident. We see everything as ordinary people do not like to Lao Tzu like that in the world, but the quietism, we can be more relaxed. In today's fast-paced society, with a good attitude and optimistic life attitude is very important. We life some people because of the life and work pressure is too large to mental anxiety, the body is in sub-health state, even someone because of emotional moment generated suicide behavior. No one's life is always proud of, the life have difficulties and setbacks is inevitable, it is commonplace, it also needs we have a positive attitude and self adjustment of the psychological mechanism. Accession to the WTO attitude to work is intended to we when dealing with others to the best of our ability, and when our own efforts result was contrary to our expectations, did not get their desired effect we need born with a heart, on the pros and cons of bearish. So how can we have a born heart? Lao Tzu "as good as water" thought gives inspiration.
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(a) thick and strong. All rivers run into sea, tolerance is a virtue. The inclusive of water is an important embodiment of Chinese traditional philosophy and cultural connotation. 2014 the APEC meeting in Beijing welcome party theme is "good Ruoshui, in the same boat". The connotation of the theme is inclusive of water. Water, but not in return for all things, we should also learn from the inclusion of water quality, good things, tolerance. Because of the history of tolerance for posterity commendable fathers be too numerous to enumerate. Tang Taizong Li Shimin can obtain "Zhenguan" success, and his generosity is not unrelated. An outspoken voice immortal minister Wei Zheng was originally Li Shimin's older brother Li Jiancheng Liao, in the royal family in the struggle to seize power, encouraged Li Jiancheng to kill Li Shimin, but Li Shimin ascended to the throne magnanimous, excluding the hatchet reuse Wei Zheng, Wei syndrome feel "Hi every friend, exhaust their resources, to create a prosperous period of the Tang Dynasty set a Hanmagonglao. The contrast with Tang Taizong is issued both Sheng Yu Sheng Liang, Zhou Yu's lament. Zhou Yu is regarded as a resourceful, talented strategist, able to manage the huge Navy Soochow youmoyouyang. But when encounter SJMS Zhuge Liang, know their talent than Zhuge Liang, sighed "since living Yu Sheng Liang, and ultimately HanHen and eventually. If Zhou Yu can have a generous humble heart may not end up so. Water to soft but bone, Jiuqu circle; how much barrier, Guanshan stacked; BaiZhuanQianHui, the end is the East Sea, water like soft and weak; happy go lucky; formless, but can change the mountain plains, also can make cement building dam in an instant collapse.
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(two) humble. A low-key life, high-profile work, support and gas. Everyone in life is trying hard to realize their own value. Life, we can see such three kind of people, the first person with ability and talent, but is arrogant; overbearing, such people often because too self in interpersonal relationships in the crisis. The second kind of humble people, forbear but at work does not have the achievements, mediocrity, life without their own ideas; failing to follow the crowd. The three kinds of people regardless of life or at work are conscientious, be good at studying, is a low-key person, can let people around convincing, and ultimately get to their success.
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How can we keep and gas? Extensive and profound water gives us unlimited inspiration. The mind is like water, keep a common heart. To win without pride, not dizzy with success without due reason, not to fail down. Only like water, soft, strong, in order to constantly enrich and improve their own. Overflow of water. A cup of water only continue to pour out the original water and then add new water to become clear flowing water and acted too, must learn to continuously vents and charging can be achieved satisfactorily. If you have a certain ability to produce complacent and even arrogant attitude is also the beginning of failure.
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(three) in the reverse thinking. The road of life is not 100 meters runway so straight, to succeed is not like the 100 meters race as just fast forward to. Life is more like a a marathon, sometimes tortuous detour. In order to make progress also can yet be regarded as a kind of good method. We are around daring Ganpin are not uncommon, there is a lack of patience and down-to-earth person. If the positive ahead is a "hot wisdom", then "retreat" is a kind of "Leng Zhihui", if the water quality is.
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Low profile, accumulate steadily. Yue hardships, Sima Qian bear a "historical records" is a kind of retreat strategy. Modern society is a society full of pressure, we need to bear the pressure from the life and work in all aspects for the contemporary college students employment pressure highlights, in the face of various pressures we need to retreat into the reverse thinking. As one of the pursuit of their goals, we sometimes lose a sense of common heart, lost the opportunity to examine their own, so that the self positioning of a large deviation caused by the huge gap between reality and their ability. There are many reasons for the failure, there are many subjective and objective factors; may be the objective environment is unfavorable also may be the lack of their ability. We need to face the failure of the same strength as water to accumulate steadily, reverse.
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